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A BOY NAME WESLEY
Posted Wednesday, 31 August 2016 // 11:57 am
 As I’m in the train on my way to work, I’m thinking about how grateful I am to have Wesley in my life. Both of us are special people with similar past in the romance world and because of that, we always make sure the other half never feel how we felt in the past. Craving for attention and love, along with being someone’s top priority. Though sometimes we failed our mission, we never give up.
I know he’ll be reading this over and over
and over again but it’s okay, as long as it makes him happy.
Wesley is a nice and caring guy with a soft
heart. He buys me flowers because he knows they make me happy and he cooks my
favourite food for me. But honestly, the only food he can really cook is pasta
in tomato sauce, rice and eggs. He knows nothing about the Chinese food I love
and the aglio olio that always make me eat more. Well, at least he makes the
effort to cook and no matter how awful it is, I’ll still eat it.
20 is the age where you’re nowhere but in between.
Being 20 is no longer a teen and not quite an adult yet. It’s the age where we start
figuring out what we want and for many of us, we start figuring out what we
don’t want. It’s a phase in life where people get into long term relationship
or out of it. When two people have different goals, their thinking no longer
aligns and they split. When two people have common goals and they want to
accomplish it together, they will come together as one.
When I’m still trying to figure out what I want or don’t want, Wesley came into my life and though there are still certain things I’m still not quite sure of, what I’m sure of, is that Wesley is someone I want in my life. He makes me feel at home.
Wesley is someone I know I can trust and
rely on. He makes me feel at ease and safe when I’m in his arms. He listens to
what I have to say and tries to remember them with his terrible memory. He
promised to write me a letter every month and they always arrive late because
he’s bad with time management and is always too busy. But there’s a saying, “You’re
never be too busy for the one you love” he’s just a lazy pig with bad time
management. I can’t blame him for belonging to the Year of Pig.
When we were young, we spoke of love too
carelessly and got our hearts or others broken. We were not wrong then, we were
just naïve thinking they were the one we will grow old with. When Wesley told
me he wants to grow old with me, I do feel the same way and we both know it’s
not just us being naïve. Sometimes, love alone is not enough. Now that we’re
old enough and experienced, we know that for two people to be together, we need
more than just love. We need tolerance (a lot of it), patience and to be
forgiving and understanding.
If you want to marry your partner in
future, then behave like married couple. Getting into a relationship is as easy
as getting married. You can do it all in one night in Vegas. But getting out of
a marriage is not as easy as getting out of a relationship. There are too many
things to consider. When Wesley and I have problems, we solve it like a married
couple instead of running away from each other. Even when it’s not his fault,
he tries to make up for it too. He does stupid things and makes silly faces just
to make me laugh. He likes my laughter and it makes him happy.
Having Wesley in my life helps offset one
of my worries, at least now I know that I won’t have to live alone with 100
cats till I die.
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