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WHO TO BLAME.
Posted Saturday, 1 November 2014 // 12:02 pm
 I have an hour before I have to go get ready for today's tuition. So, this will be a rather short post. " When a leaf falls, whose fault is it? The tree that let it go? The wind that blew it away? Or the leaf that got tired of hanging on? " Let's not look at it from the science point of view, because we all know it's nature and it's then nobody's fault. But it look at it from the life point of view, who's fault is it? It may be everybody's....... If I translate it into a daily problem, you will understand why. " When a relationship breaks, whose fault is it? The one that let go? The third person who broke them up? Or the other one that gave up? " How I see it may not be how you see it but I'll explain my view. It's everyone's fault. It takes two hands to clap, one is trying so hard to coordinate to clap but the other one just doesn't give a damn, it's never gonna work out. On Earth, there are many arseholes breathing around us, we just need to find out who are those arseholes. These people just like to ruin things, why? I wonder why too. While two is trying to make a clap, people like them will come and try to split them up. When the pair breaks, everyone is to be blame. If the one that doesn't give a damn tries hard enough, the clap might work out. If the one that hang on a little more, maybe the clap might work out. If the arshole doesn't interfere, maybe the pair will work out. I guess it's not just about relationship between people, it applies generally in life. If you're the one that doesn't give a damn, please, for god's sake, if you intend to do something, give your best, put your heart into it and do it! If you're the one that gave up, have some faith and hold on a little longer. Well, if you're the arsehole, damn you, leave others alone, one day, karma will kick you hard in the arse. We all have been in such situations before and I'm usually the one that gave up. Why? Because I'm not that strong and I can't hang on and keep trying so hard when I know it's not gonna work out when the other half just doesn't care. Not that I didn't try, I did. But what's meant to be, will be. If it's not meant to be, no matter how long I hold on to it and no matter how hard I try, it will never work out. So, I give up. I always stick around just in case it might work out but most of the time, it just doesn't. I guess this is the main reason why I don't have many I see as a friend. A friendship needs two people to work together to get it going, if you're always never around for me then what is a friend for? There's a reason why there's such terms as schoolmate, classmate and colleagues. You know them but they are not your friend, people like me, we draw these lines very clearly. I say it applies generally in life because it works the same way for the things you want and we all want something in life. We always want something. " When you didn't get the thing you want, whose fault is it? The thing that didn't come to you? The third factor that stopped you? Or you the one gave up trying to get it? " I always believe in fighting for what you want and what you think you deserve. (I don't mean fight physically.) You will fight against all odds and overcome all obstacles if you really want it. If you gave up halfway, it only means you didn't want it bad enough. Life is fair, it's human beings that made it unfair. Some people just gotta work harder than others because others just don't want you have the easy way out. Life unfold a lot of misunderstandings everyday and every moment. It's up to us to solve it, leave it or live with it. If you really want it, you'll solve it. If you don't care that much, you'll leave it. If you think like me (What's meant to be, will be.) , you'll live with it. Keeping fight for what you want and live your dreams. |
Joyce. I'm a walking sunshine and I blog about everything and anything under the Sun. And, I might have a slight obsession with Jigsaw puzzles, Snow globes and Stars. twitter // tumblr // instagram mejor que todos.  Achieve.
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