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MY TYPE OF MAN
Posted Saturday, 25 October 2014 // 11:09 pm
 Notice that I mentioned man and not boy. I cannot handle insensible and immature boys. Nope, just no. If your life revolves only around games, alcohol and girls then you're not my type of opposite sex. Reason why I say man and not boy is because I'm past the stage of puppy love, I want a man who is ambitious, someone who knows what he wants in future and knows how to get there. Truth to be told, I'm not very pretty or very feminine. But there are still people asking me if I have a boyfriend and when I say no, they seem surprised, like I was the kind of girl that bound to have a boy in her life. Unfortunately, I'm not the kind of girl. Why? You tell me why. My perfect dream guy would be Chuck Bass from Gossip Girl, all those ladies out there that watched Gossip Girl would know he's a guy to die for. Mysterious, handsome, smart, cunning, in trend and no doubt, rich too. But then again, he's a fiction. Where does he exist? Only in stories, of course..... So, here goes nothing. My type of man. #1 You can be mean, you can be direct but you cannot be rude. Be polite, be nice please. I am not a very typical girl, I want a guy that debates with me, argue with me and not give in to me. #2 He doesn't have to intelligent, smart enough to tell me I'm wrong and is able prove it will do. If you can answer all my "Why?"s, it'll be a bonus. (Winks) He obviously must be able to tolerate my curiosity. I think I'm easily satisfied, my man doesn't have to be charming. In fact, I want him to be just average, just so other girls will stay clear. Sorry girls, what's mine is mine. #3 He mustn't be a boring guy, because I'm a very adventurous and hyperactive girl and I love to walk, he better love to walk too. I don't care if he doesn't read, doesn't watch what I watch, doesn't drink tea or listen to the musics I love. I really don't care. #4 I don't care if we don't share the same interest because my man will be able to compromise. Let's just say he loves action, and I definitely do not, I can watch action movies with him if he wants. But when I say let's watch romance, he better not tell me no. #5 I'm know I'm weird but he has to agree to go dutch once in awhile. #6 Gentleman, I love gentlemen. Always offer to carry her shopping bags or any heavy bags for her. I repeat, ALWAYS. I might contradict a little here but I have my reasons for it. I like it when guys offer to take my stuff for me but I'll not let them take it unless I'm at the verge of collapsing. You can always take my laptop for me though, I'll gladly let you hold it for me. The reason for this contradiction is because, if you guys offer to help, it tells a lot. Firstly, you're attentive and observant, you notice that she might need some help. Secondly, it shows how gentleman you are, like how you would open the door for others. And for me to reject your help is because I believe in, if I want to buy it, I shall carry it. You are my man, not my maid. But, (again) I will willingly let you carry my laptop for me if you offer some help. #7 Listen to me when I talk because I'll listen to you when you talk. No matter what you say. #8 Dress appropriately, dress smart and smell nice. I'll do the same for you. (Hygiene is important. In case you don't already know) Most importantly, be honest. I don't care how ridiculous or how awkward it is, always tell me the truth. Don't lie. I'm a Asian girl with a western mind, a very modern mind. I totally cool with my man doing all their boys' stuff. After all, boys will always be boys. I can accept him checking other girls out, porn, video games, club and whatsoever, but please do not take that as it's okay to cheat on me. IT IS NOT OKAY. #9 Whatever you're up to, just tell me truthfully. I'm sorry to say I'm a girl that requires a lot of attention and time. #10 I need you to love me more than I love you. I need at least 10 mins of your time daily and please do let me know before you disappear to do your important stuff. Don't keep me hanging please, I hate it. Spend time with me. If you get a girl just to keep, I suggest you get a vase instead. #11 Don't ever raise your voice at me or raise your hand with the intention of hurting me. Even if you didn't hurt me physically, you already killed me mentally. I'll retreat, I'll cry. My man can not dress in colours or not like colours but he must have a bright mind that thinks positively. #12 Have some determination, have some confidence. Make me feel that I can trust you with my life. #13 Love kids please. #14 My man, you, don't have to be rich, financially stable is enough for me. Don't tell me what I cannot or should not do because I wouldn't do that to you. I can't be tied down. #15 Don't expect me to be a housewife, I won't. Have a mind of your own, don't tell me up to me. #16 I'm very indecisive, I need you to be decisive. #17 Make me smile, hug me tightly and carry me. At the end of the day, I don't really care. If I love you, I'll accept all your flaws and all your shortcoming. Even if you are all that I've mentioned, you're still not the one if there's no chemistry between us. Though I'm slightly biased towards Cancers and Scorpios, my love doesn't come easy. Once I fall, I fall hard and I don't fall easily. You think nobody like this exists, it's easier for me to die single. I think so too. It's okay, I'll grow old alone in a studio apartment with a hundred cats. |
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