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fate
Posted Friday, 28 February 2014 // 9:11 am
 I do. I believe the reason why you are here and doing this is because of fate. Through my life, I've met countless of people, some stayed, most didn't. But I don't blame them, I mean two person start drifting apart, it only means the fate ends here. Maybe someday, they will come back into your life for some reasons, that's fate too. Why do we fall out of love? Cause that's fate telling us that's not the right one. Some only ended up as friends, some lover and some will just be strangers forever. Look around you, did you choose your friends or your family? And by choosing your friend I meant you had the freedom to be ANYONE'S friend. The fact is no, where you are, the friends you made are kinda fated for you. Your choice of friends is limited to those that happen to be in the same place as you. My colleagues always ask why would I choose to work at a certain place, maybe I like travelling or maybe it's just fate. My first workplace, I met my first love. We're still very in love, but just couldn't make it work. Fate too, I guess? You see, what if I chose to work somewhere near my place? Then I wouldn't have met that one I am so in love with. Fate I guess, I made real great friends there and saw the real world. If I chose to be somewhere else, my first love might not be the same one. Or maybe it will be the same one but we'll meet differently. Can you change your fate? I used to think, no. Like once you were born, everything is written in your fate. At the age of 8, you'll meet your best friend. At 15, you will have your first kiss. At 21, you might start smoking. At 30, maybe an accident. And at some point of life, you'll die. Every decision you make, it's fated too. Then I think again, if we can't change our fate is it then those criminals were born bad, with their fated sealed in jail? I guess you can change your fate by your thoughts and actions. Maybe in fate, there's always a plan B in every point of life and the unchangeable is just meant to be. We should never be afraid of changes or people's opinion about us. Changes help us grow. People's opinion will make the real you disappear, don't change because you want to be one of them. Change because you are not happy. I am the type of girl that hates to force myself to do things I'm not happy doing. Change, make it your way reasonably. Come and go? Well, that's fate too. I decided to quit my second job after working for only 3 months because I am not happy there. So why bother staying? I met people, fate. Short fate. But because in life, we don't know what tomorrow may bring. What if I die? I'll die with a unhappy job. Don't restrict yourself to just one place, the world is so big. But please don't give up just because of a little problem or stress. Because if you can't handle work stress, how are you gonna handle life stress? Don't fret. When the time comes, you'll know to stay or to go. |
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