Maybe it's fate.
Posted Thursday, 3 October 2013 // 11:07 am
“People come, people go – they’ll drift in and out of your life, almost like characters in a favorite book. When you finally close the cover, the characters have told their story and you start up again with another book, complete with new characters and adventures. Then you find yourself focusing on the new ones, not the ones from the past.” - Nicholas Sparks,The Rescue
Have you ever wonder why people you know become someone you used to know? And all the day and night messages become nothing? It just stopped and no one knows why..... How can people you used to know so well, from what they are doing daily to what they had for dinner, just become strangers all of a sudden? Maybe one of us gave up and the other didn't make the effort to keep it going, maybe we got bored of them, maybe, maybe, maybe.
Every relationship/friendship has their own story..... How it started, how it fair and how it ended. Sometimes I stop making the effort to start a conversation because I feel that if you want to talk to me, you will text me. And sometimes, the result wasn't so pleasant! Nothing. Message you're trying to send across, received loud and clear. You didn't want to talk to me but was merely entertaining me.... I get it. I'm not the most interesting girl, not the prettiest or sexiest. I understand. I will understand why I didn't hear from you but it still will hurt.
We all want someone to be there for us, no matter what happens, but face it! When you say someone, you don't mean just anyone. Someone you want, someone you love and someone you care about and wish they care about you too. We want that someone, not just anyone. We end up taking that anyone for granted and when they decide to leave, you wonder why. Don't keep pushing people away thinking they'll always be there for you because someday, they might just leave and never come back.
Nothing last forever, you don't, neither do I, not even relationships! Married couples can end up divorced and bestfriends can end up as enemies. You think you last forever? In the end, we all die, decompose and turn into nothing. Nothing except memories. We don't last forever, don't expect people to stay forever in your life.
When they are no longer in your life, it just means their fate with you ends here. What's meant to be, will be. You can drift away for years but if it's meant to be, you'll find your way back to each other. Holding on might only cause more pain than having a happily ever after. People go, but live goes on.
Letting go might land you on someone better.
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